haha i havent blogged in so dam long. but i think the title above warrants an entry on its own.
Just in the past week, i've seen insulting comments from 3 different guys to(and about) their girlfriends on facebook. Admittedly, ive been on fb more than i should be this last week. exam distraction syndrome. but that doesnt change the fact that the comments were there..just that they mightve escaped my notice. anyway! i think its bad enough that guys make derogatory comments in private, but on public domain!
here are some of the comments (very paraphrased to avoid a defamation suit though i think id have a good case of truth/justification defense heh.)
1. shut up, fat girl.
2. the photographer actually managed to make you look slim
3. youre looking more well endowed than usual(actual comment more crude than this)
seriously girls, dont stand for it! i know sometimes these comments are made in jest. heck, i used to have an ex who would make similar comments like that. i usually dont take it to heart because i know he can be a tad insensitive sometimes without meaning to be. but i think one day when you happen to be feeling low, these comments may come and haunt. in any case, id give him a really hard whack and show obvious disapproval till he apologises.
so yeah. whatever reasons for such comments, girls deserve more respect. so guys stop it already!
*end of feministic rant*
